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C.A.L.M
When you get tense or angry, take responsibility for your behavior. Work hard to stay C.A.L.M by taking the following steps: Consider, Ask, Limit, Monitor. Consider the potential for destructiveness before you speak during tense moments. Remember the wrecks–the conversations … Continue reading
Positive thinking and speaking (Part 1)
Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death. The most important change we can make is to take total control of what we say to ourselves. Now we see all of these verses about the tongue … Continue reading
Posted in Doctrines of Scripture, Personal development
Tagged Bible, Biblical counseling, religion, spirituality
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Prevent Conflicts by De-stressing Your Spouse
Stress causes conflict, and conflict causes stress. Both spouses should work on de-stressing, instead of distressing, each other. Distressed spouses are always “on the edge.” Everything–no matter how small–can become a source of argument or conflict. So learn to de-stress … Continue reading
Constant Communication Reduces Conflict.
Character is the key to communication. Learn to prevent conflict and de-stress your relationship by developing attitudes that make it easy for your spouse to talk with you about anything. Preventing conflicts is easier than solving them. Character creates trust; … Continue reading
Rule Number Five: Encourage Dialogue by Learning to Listen
The purposes of a man’s heart are deep waters, but a man of understanding draws them out. (Proverbs 20:5, NIV) Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath (James 1:19, … Continue reading
Posted in Christian marriage, Doctrines of Scripture, Family, marriage, My Book, relationships
Tagged Biblical counseling, family, marriage, My Book, religion, spirituality
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Rule 4: When talking about sensitive issues, make sure that you start with a humble heart
Begin with questions that allow you to Ask, Seek, and Knock at the door of your spouse’s heart. Don’t begin with accusations and judgments voiced as rhetorical questions: “I wonder what’s wrong with you?” “How could you hurt me like … Continue reading
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